The most challenging thing in a relationship is to accept the changes of the other. Especially when their changes are not what we expect.
Every relationship, such as friendship or marriage, always has a honeymoon, which everything is in harmony and friendly. The cause of this good time can be from our curiosity and tolerance.
Firstly, we are curious because their life is interesting and adventurous. We want to know more and more about them. Moreover, we and they often show off the most beautiful face and manner to amaze each other.
Secondly, we are tolerant because we may not want to show our angry or irritated face, or we have a purpose or benefit with this relationship. In order to archive it, we can forgive them easily.
However, the next chapter of a relationship is the normality and changes, when nothing special happens or we achieve the purpose or benefit. We can be tired of showing off and starting our true life as a normal human being, not a superman or wonder woman. It is also the time to see changes.
It is a real test for a long relationship.
Can I accept this change?
Can I still love him/her with these changes?
Should I hold on or let it go?
It is said that we are not born to this world to love a perfect man/ woman, but we are invited to love an imperfect man/ woman perfectly!
Pause for a while, and look at your heart.
With love,
Butchivuive- Happy pencil
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